Value Yourself

Just needed to share this. Saw something the other day and it wasn't so cool. Learn to treat your spouse well...

Value is one word most people like to see, hear and talk about. They tell you how you should value something or someone without knowing that the moment you cast yourself on the ground, people will walk on, and horses won't mind to ride on too.

Some others loose theirs, unknowingly. They think they've got it all together and go on with their everyday life activity, and later wonder why they don't get the result they suppose to get. Its all in the way you keep yourself..I think.

Sometimes, we let the people that are dear to us reduce our lives and make us lose our sense of thinking. You may be surprised to imagine if its true; sorry to break to you... It is.
It is true that, someone you love ( you think loves you) can manipulate you and make you do things ordinarily is wrong  to do.
You bring yourself constantly to his demands and exploits as it were, or make decisions that puts you in harms way, hurt you in the process and you are comfortable with it because he comes back to you and tells you stories behind his actions and you fall for it each time he does.
You don't refuse, you don't act. You  say he loves you and  then you stay..


Two things will happen; its either you remain in the relationship losing everything you are, or he throws you out! And brings in someone he adores.

Love can never be suffering. It can never be in constant denial,  it cannot betray and does not lie to the other.
When you take away every other thing that makes life beautiful and love is what is left,  you feel more accomplished than the one who has it all most times.

Don't reduce yourself whatever the price maybe, its your standard.. The moment you journey on that road, there will be no coming back, until you reach the end of the road and discover that you never should have made the journey in the first place.
Your value is what makes you unique and what makes you attractive. Reducing it constantly for anyone makes you worthless in the eyes of the one that desires such. As far as i can remember, no one go looking for things without values. You'll only know the value of something when you see the price tag on it ,and its only people who can afford,that buys..

So.. stand out, be decisive and do your decisions without been persuaded by anyone.
Don't look for reasons why you should reduce your values or why you should keep or increase your values. Know that people will always use you when they see you have a low self Worth..

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