The Need To Be Loved

In recent times, I have observed carefully the reason for the "superman syndrome".  A man who is giving that billing is not entirely true most times. Some men become aggressive in things they're comfortable with and when they feel vulnerable, they shut down and withdraw, protecting their image.

whether real or imagined, most men feel that they are expected to know everything and be in control at all times. But when it comes to our hearts,we are not always in control of what we feel. Rather than exposing ourselves,we camouflage our deepest thoughts by parading our strength.

just beneath the beating of the drums of our "I've got it together parade" is someone who needs to feel safe deeply. Safe enough to be vulnerable and honest.
Safe enough to see the challenge and the way beyond.Not ignoring the trials but accepting to perform the charge of genuine care-love.

Revival isn't just for the churches but also in everything we hold dear. If we are going to have the perfect relationships, we must look out for the things that brought us together, the things we did and words said that worked magic and continue. As relationships expand, we also must live up to it by adding consciously to ourselves what the other soul needs to survive. We must look  for the fire in their eyes and keep it aflame.

Love is enough to get everything done. You must look for the seat of the passion of your lover and satisfy it. You must make a conscious effort to keep your lover's love alive. DON'T kill it, don't choke it. Let it breathe, let it feel the air whispering and tendering warmth in a cool night wave.

Every woman has that button to be pushed to unlock her passion and fulfillment. And that spot is her heart. Love her unconditionally, love her entirely. Let her know that she's still safe in your arms and she'll enthrone you and keep you safe in her heart and show you to the world that she only have eyes for you.


Inspired by TheLadyHerloverAndHerLord.

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